unification

we must unify the self—not solidify the pieces.

so much of our time is spent trying to get each and every piece of us settled, healed, sorted out, moved out, pushed aside...whatever the case may be. but this life of ours, it’s a dance. we don’t get know the steps ahead of time. we’re learning as we go. and all the pieces together are what make the whole...they allow us to dance. the pieces, separate, are just that—separated. ever heard of strength in numbers?

before this inspired message spirit used to tell me ✨you cannot heal if you are not whole.✨ so what does while even look like? it looks like you...in one piece. you...together. UNIFIED. not hiding a part of yourself out of fear, shame, regret, remorse, or in the name of professionalism. in the name of how someone else wants to dictate how you behave.

fuck balance. you’re still a mother at work. you’re still a partner to your lover when you’re out with the clique. you’re still a daughter when you marry. you’re still a witch at work. you’re still a sub at family dinners.

you are ALL the things. ALL of them TOGETHER. they are NOT separate. they are ALL YOU. and to see them as separate is to think you are not worthy to have all your pieces together at once.

what makes you feel like you can’t be what you want to be and still also be who you ARE? get rid of that shit. UNIFY. bring together. BRING YOU HOME—bring yourself back. all those small bits and pieces. they are ALL WORTHY AND DESERVING of EVERY drop of your love and attention. because they are all facets of YOU. in one body.

when we UNIFY spirit says this is how we integrate. because it is when we accept those parts at all times regardless of circumstance or company we keep, that we are accepting...welcoming back...welcoming HOME those parts of ourselves we pushed away.