we are our family
We are our families. And we are our own family. Contained inside everything, every piece, every cell, every fiber of your physical being lives that of your entire family.
Why is this necessary to know? Because it is helpful. It is enabling. And what it is enabling, exactly, is your ability to insight change. At any given moment, you can make a change that can drastically change the flow of your current reality. But you don’t. Why is that? Part of the reason is your attachment to the lives you’ve built here on planet Earth. Part of the reason is the pain that your body feels when it makes choices that feel “out of alignment”. Part of it is your ego—you’ve made decisions, goals, plans to get someplace tomorrow and even 5, 10 years from now…you don’t want to abandon those plans and goals.
But truthfully, there isn’t anything that you can’t accomplish in any given moment. Your fear of the unknown is such a great facilitator in keeping your flesh where it is. What does this have to do with family?
When you choose to come here, incarnate on Earth, you choose your family unit that you will be born into. You choose geographically where you will live, your parents, your siblings, your cousins, your aunts and uncles—everyone is specifically chosen by you. And the vast majority of those who are incarnating with you in this lie time are those who have also come with you in other lives as well. Each time playing out a bit of a different scene. It’s a kin to a stage play. During the play, the cast and crew complete the show in its entirety. At the end of the show, in preparation for the next day the entire cast and crew rotates—each taking a different part. Some of the characters may remain similar, most will change. Some lighting and sound people will become the main characters for the show’s plot. And the main characters may resume much more minor parts like clean-up crew. So, the following night, the audience comes in and sits down to watch the play. Sometimes the audience members will repeat too…sometimes not. And they will watch the play just as it was the night before. But it’s not the same as the night before. And it won’t be the same tomorrow night either because the cast and crew will change their roles once again.
Each time the scenes play out, even though they’re so much the same…they are also so very different. So is you and your life, and the relationship of you to others in your life. You are the starting role in your one person play—everyone else is playing supporting roles in YOUR production. So is true for each and every other person. In that case you are the supporting role in their one person play.
This means that you have such strength and control and power over what it is that’s going to take place. You are the star. You are in charge.
When you choose to make shifts or changes to the storyline, your relationship to others, placing boundaries, ghosting people, inviting people in—all of these changes effect the overall outcome of how your “play” is going to play out. As you make adjustments, so does (naturally) the other characters involved. That’s part of the deep interconnectedness of all beings here on Earth.
The problem is that humans take things one sided. Someone makes a major life change and the other people take such offense to it instead of offering the opportunity and space to allow that change to take hold or effect—showing that other human a place and space they need to change too. So this adds to the fear of why sometimes people do not want to make such drastic changes. But the fact of the matter is, regardless of if anyone else wants to change or not by YOU TAKING CONTROL of your life, your ROLE in the life that YOU’VE CHOSEN AND CREATED…it forces them to make a change too.
And it’s for the better, as long as you hold the highest intention of healing, release, and widening of perspective in mind.
But alas, the fear still persists.
Some of this simply resides on the fact that a risk has never really been taken, and you have no way to measure what will take place as an effect. The goal your soul has is to align itself with the highest vibrations and frequencies of love, truth, expansiveness, etc. In order for you to get there, unfortunately, there will be some sacrifices. And the blockage of fear that’s keeping you solidified in the mentality and reality that you can’t change the family you’ve been born into is a lie.
Because by changing yourself, you can change others. You can change others because you are connected. You are connected because we all come from one true Divine spark.
The minute, the second, the INSTANT that you decide to make a change, and implement that change, you IMMEDIATELY make a shift into the way that others react and respond to you. This is the beauty of being connected to others. And they WANT to work on that change WITH you because they incarnated with you. Everyone is in agreement to the work that each of you needs to do.
So do your work.
As you make changes to yourself it will push that IMMEDIATE change in their system—forcing them to shift and adjust simply because you did. The effects from this won’t always be favorable—you must forge ahead. The changes necessary to preserve your peace, growth, and unfoldment are of vital importance. Too much time is spent worrying about what others will think—stop giving them so much of your power. They can take care of themselves. And so must YOU take care of YOURSELF.
In truth, your reality is being created this very instant. Each and every moment of each and every day, you’re writing your future. You’re writing the very things that in future lives, you’ll come back to see why it is you landed where you did. Just as it was for your past lives. When you allow yourself to see each and very life as part of a process with no end—you never die—this can help allow you the freedom to explore without fear…or at least less fear.
And on the subject of fear, it is being created by your body. Your flesh is quite fearful. Your soul knows what needs to happen. And this is why many of you are in such turmoil. The two parts of who you are in this Earth plane are at war with each other. It’s tiring. And sad.
But my loves, the answers are always so much easier than you allow yourself to have. Why complicate things? Why make everything so long and drawn out? Your ability to create your reality is a LITERAL SUPER POWER that you have. And again, as you shift and change and grow in relation to anyone and everyone you’re related to and know—so will they shift and change too. No one is leaving you. Each lifetime just offering you a new perspective and aspect of each person here with you—yourself included.
Be brave. Be open. Be curious. Let your body shake and tremble and cry and scream. Let it throw it’s tantrum.
Ignore it.
Push forward.
Change and grow and love your own self to your heart’s content.
Because you don’t have a choice. Because you already made the choice to learn THESE lessons with THESE people in THIS way. You CHOOSE this. You had the power of infinite sight, perception, reason, and love. You were able to see and know of all of your lifetimes past, parallel, alternate, and future. You knew it all. You had that deep connection with everyone you came here to this planet with.
And you did it all for the master purpose of growing to the highest realm in your soul’s highest vibration and frequency of love, honesty, truth, growth, etc.
Don’t let yourself fall back on your own promises. You gave yourself exactly what you needed. And part of what you had to learn were the parts of you that live in all your “family” both family from flesh and those friends and kin you meet. Each person, because of our interconnectedness, holds a piece of you in them. And it’s these pieces that you recognize, push away, love, hold, or hurt. Each of those people, an opportunity to meet an aspect of you and decide what to do with it. Smaller cycles and patterns that also play out with them knowing that small part of them in you.
And so you’re all here together. Now. Don’t waste anymore time. The only thing holding off now is going to do is force you to continue to learn and engage in this SAME process in your next life.